10 Alternatives to Punishing Your Child

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Parenting can be challenging, especially when it comes to disciplining and punishing your child. While punishment may seem like the quickest way to correct behavior, it can often lead to resentment and fear. It usually doesn’t teach the underlying lessons you want your child to learn.

Disciplining children is one of the most challenging. That’s why I want to take you through 10 alternative punishments you can give your children when they misbehave.

1. Positive Reinforcement

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Rewarding good behavior can be more effective than punishing bad behavior. Praise and reward your child when they complete their chores or display good manners. This encourages them to repeat these positive actions. It also encourages them to always want to be of good behavior.

2. Family Meetings

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Regular family meetings can be a great platform for discussing issues and setting expectations. Use these meetings to talk about behavior, set family rules, and allow children to express their feelings and opinions. This gives them a sense of belonging and mutual respect. It also allows you, as a parent, to know where the child is falling short of the family rules and helps you adjust.

3. Empathy and Understanding

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Understanding the reasons behind your child’s behavior can help you address the root cause rather than just the symptoms. Ask questions to understand their feelings and motivations behind what they did. Validate their emotions and help them find appropriate ways to express themselves. With this, you can relate to whatever they’re feeling.

4. Teaching Emotional Regulation

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Help your child understand and manage their emotions through age-appropriate techniques and activities. Teach deep breathing exercises, mindfulness, or using words to express feelings. Encourage your child to say, “I’m feeling frustrated because…” instead of acting out. Children act on very little things and sometimes want to be understood in every situation. Expressing how they feel makes them calm and explains why they acted inappropriately.

5. Setting Clear Expectations

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Communicate your expectations and the reasons behind them to help your child understand what is acceptable and unacceptable. Explain why they need to clean up their room and the benefits of a tidy space, setting a clear standard for cleanliness. Show patience and kindness in your interactions, and your child is more likely to emulate those behaviors. For instance, you can say, “We need to clean up before bedtime because it helps us find things more easily in the morning,” or “We speak kindly to each other to make everyone feel respected.”

6. Logical Consequences

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Logical consequences are directly related to the misbehavior and help children see the connection between their actions and the outcomes. If they draw on the walls, they help clean it up. If they break a rule about screen time, they lose some screen time the next day. If they break a toy by being careless, they don’t get a replacement immediately. They learn to take care of their belongings and become more responsible.

7. Natural Consequences

Allow your child to experience the natural consequences of their actions, provided they are safe. This helps them understand the impact of their behavior. If they refuse to wear a coat, they might feel cold. If they don’t clean up their toys, they might not be able to find their favorite ones later. If they forget their homework, they face the teacher’s response, teaching them responsibility and the importance of being prepared.

8. Calm Down Corner

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Create a calming space where your child can go to relax and regain control of their emotions. Fill the corner with soft pillows, books, and calming activities like coloring or sensory toys. Encourage your child to use this space when they feel overwhelmed or start to misbehave. This makes them calm and relaxed in the way, and by the time they come out of there, they are calm.

9. Teach Empathy

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Help your child understand the impact of their actions on others. Talk to your child about how their behavior affects others. Encourage them to consider others’ feelings and to practice empathy in their interactions. You can also take their favorite toys from them whenever they talk to people rudely. Or refrain from buying their favorite snack from them anytime they look down on someone.

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10. Problem-Solving Together

Involve your child in finding solutions to problems. This empowers them and teaches them to take responsibility for their actions. This is a suggested question you can ask, “How do you think we can make sure your toys are picked up every night?” or “What could you do differently next time?”

Using these positive alternatives to punishment helps build a strong, respectful relationship with your child while teaching them important life skills. By focusing on understanding, communication, and collaboration, you can guide your child toward better behavior without the negative effects of punishment. Embrace these strategies to foster a nurturing and supportive environment where your child can thrive.

‘Mompreneurship’…more than a sisterhood

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One thing that binds mompreneurs together is how we easily understand one another and share similar experiences. Who is a mompreneur? She’s simply a superwoman who balances running her own business with motherhood. More mompreneurs are coming up every day and supporting one another is one major way of making the mompreneur journey easier and more fulfilling. Every mompreneur needs a support system of kindred women, and today, especially in a time of social distancing, isolation etc. we share a few ways by which we as mompreneurs can support one another.

  • Be open and ready to learn from others

 

There are many mompreneurs who are ready to share their experiences and give advice, and thankfully social media has made it easier to do so. Sometimes, experience isn’t the best teacher…we can also learn from others so we can handle things better or not make the same mistakes. Just as we learn from others, we should also be willing to share our experiences with fellow mompreneurs, so they are reminded that they are not alone.

 

  • Support groups

Ever heard the song “bind us together with cords that cannot be broken”? Yep, as mompreneurs, we can also stand together by forming support groups that will build the foundation for lifelong friendships and networks that will be there throughout the mompreneur journey. There are a couple of mompreneur support groups (including ours), but hey, if you know a few mompreneurs as well, you could also try forming a small group via WhatsApp etc., where you could have weekly virtual meetings. This could be a place to vent, share ideas and encourage one another.

 

  • Referrals

Word-of-mouth often goes a long way! Do you know a mompreneur who has started a business and has so much to offer? You could also support by telling others about it, so they could patronize their products and services. Not only will this bring them some revenue, but also encourage them to keep going.

 

  • Comment, like, share, participate

Sometimes, the support is in the little things. Have you seen a mompreneur’s post that inspired you or that you learnt from? You could share it with others so they could also be inspired. Or perhaps you saw an encouraging quote you felt other mompreneurs may need to see. You can also tag them to let them know you’re thinking of them. Even if it’s just liking a post or commenting to show that you see them and believe in what they do, that alone could put a smile on a mompreneur’s face and give her the push she needs.

 

We need one another and can only be stronger together! Do you know any mompreneur? Don’t hesitate to encourage her today. Here’s to many more successes together!

Written by : Nana Boatemaa

Tips for SME Owners During COVID-19

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First and foremost, relax and do not make any rash decisions if you are in panic mode. It is time to think clearly and not be reactive, which can be easy to do with the influx of information being thrown at us. Our (mental) health and well being and that of our staff are of the utmost importance at the moment. Luckily, many SMEs today thrive using digital channels, whether it is the ways they communicate with clients or achieve productivity from their staff.

It does not matter who you are or your industry of specialization; the reality of the matter is that we will all most likely lose out one way or another, whether it is relating to our finances or in human capital. Nobody is exempt from the toll of the virus, which is still extending throughout the world, creating a ripple effect that will impact us for quite some time.

As reported in SmallBizTrends, “27% of businesses expect the coronavirus to have a moderate to high impact on their revenue. Another 30% expect the virus to have a moderate to high impact on their supply chain.”
The goal here is deploying all efforts to help minimize the impact of our losses. At KUSI Consulting, we are no experts in saving SMEs, however, there are some means and methods we are personally experimenting with that we wish to share with you.

Here are some key points and advice based on our experiences thus far since the pandemic to help you minimize your losses.

1. Leverage technology and focus on selected services.

If there is any part of your work that can be performed digitally then strongly consider it. Also, leverage on those services you offer which require a digital means. Earlier this week, one of our clients suggested postponing a negotiations meeting scheduled for three potential candidates they are considering for available roles. Rather than postpone, we proposed a video conference, which they found it to be a great idea. We have to find ways to not interrupt our normal business flow and keep things as normal as possible. If there are alternatives, consider those alternatives instead.

2. Consider outsourcing and freelancers.

With a limited or no team the work still has to get done. For some of us, we are fortunate to be able to work from home. A luxury that is not afforded to everyone. It is time to consider outsourcing and leveraging the talents of freelancers who work independently. Last week, another client began to weigh their options and consider hiring an emergency staff in case their current staff goes on strike and does not report to work. If you can afford this then consider this option.

3. Think about survival and not about your get-rich-or-die-trying agenda.

Figure out your monthly expenditure and highlight the necessities ex: food and electricity. Worry about making enough to cover those expenses and not about your next vacation destination. It is time to cut back in all the ways we possibly can until life picks up again and normalcy is restored.

4. Actively check on your team who are working remotely or not working at all.

Employee engagement is not only in the workplace. It extends outside of the workplace. Ask about their (mental) health, how they are feeling and engage them as often as you can. You will be amazed at the solutions they help you to derive. Keep in mind that your employees are feeling the same way you do regarding the business. They too are concerned if they will have jobs and stability when it is all over. That is if they have not already lost their jobs. Seek their advice and the advice of your internal stakeholders before making business decisions.

5. Limit spending wherever you can.

We have no idea how long the Coronavirus and its impact will last. Try and cut expenses. For example, Instead of the AC use a fan.

6. Pay your staff if you can afford it even if it’s not their full salaries.

It is not time to be neglecting those who need you the most during this crisis. The men and women who have been working to help achieve the objectives of your business. Find solutions to provide for them just as you would for yourself. We are all in this together. If you can afford to provide hazard pay for employees risking their lives to still come to work then do so.

7. We can all use a bit of faith. Continue to pray and have faith.

It is certainly time to start thinking outside of the box and letting our creative juices flow. Share positive news and information with your community and team to uplift their spirits. The truth is, when this ordeal is over, we may not all be left standing on our two feet, business-wise. But, we can and should remain positive, hopeful and faithful.

If you have more to add on this topic, kindly leave a message in our comments section.

Give us a call (+233 55 408 1727) (+233 30 254 7136) or e-mail us at info@kusiconsulting.com for more advice and also about our Recruitment, Training, HR Audit and Digital Marketing services.

Written by:

Rita Kusi

Human Resource and Marketing Expert.

CEO & Sr. Consultant @ KUSI Consulting.

Why is your content not gaining as much feedback as you would like?

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Audience engagement is a key aspect of social media today, whether it’s for your business or personal brand. Have you ever shared content and not gotten as much feedback as you would have wanted? Well then this is for you. Today we share some simple yet important reasons why your audience is probably not responding as much as you would want them to.

  • You are not being personal enough

Why should a client, viewer or reader click on your content and not someone else’s? With so much content out there these days, there is a need to connect on a personal level with your audience. Instead of taking on a general tone, you need to find ways to make your audience feel you are speaking directly to them. You could also find simple ways to connect with your audience such as an occasional check-up, a birthday wish, a giveaway or content that is relevant to them at the time.

It is important to at least have some information about your audience, whether it’s their e-mail address, just their name or what catches their attention the most. This by no means implies you should be intrusive, but it will mean more to your audience if your content spoke to them more on a personal level as compared to general content that comes across as speaking to just anyone. Your message should be tailored to suit your audience, to make it more practical and relatable. Tools such as Google Analytics makes it easier to identify who is responding more to your content, where they are responding from and where they spend the most time on your page. This takes us to our next point…

 

  • You are not making good use of insights

What you do with the insights gained from your analytics could play a key role in improving your audience engagement. Where do you get most of your clicks from? How often is your content reshared? Where is your audience hearing about you from? Using tools like Google Analytics does not only end at gaining audience insights, but also making use of those insights to give your audience engagement a face-lift. Responding to such information could help make your content more audience-specific and help you to know which key areas to focus on and which ones to do away with.

 

  • Your content cover/featured image/title is not catchy enough

There is so much clutter on the internet these days, which leads us back to the question, how can you stand out? You may need to take your creativity a notch higher with your content presentation, cover photos etc. Are they becoming monotonous or they are visually appealing enough to catch the attention of your audience? You could explore options such as using real-life pictures that will influence your audience to want to know more or use tools such as Canva to design simple yet interesting images to attract and sustain audience interest. Often, an attractive image or title will lead your audience to want to know more.

 

  • You are posting way too much

Sometimes posting way too often may cause your audience to lose interest because your content may either seem too ‘all over the place’ or just not relevant anymore. You could schedule your posts to space out the timing a bit more. You do not necessarily have to post on every topic out there or engage in every conversation. It is much better to develop an authoritative voice on topics relevant to your brand and to your audience. This makes it easier for your audience to take you more seriously because you know what you are talking about and your posts/content are always well thought through. You need to strike a balance between consistency and making your audience miss you occasionally such that when you post, they will sit up and pay attention.

 

  • Is your audience learning from your content?

Does your content make your audience feel they are gaining something from you? Will your content make your audience feel they have not wasted their time (and sometimes bundle)? Does your audience feel they are much better people after viewing your content? How does your content make your audience feel? More importantly, how does your audience benefit from your content, without you saying it point blank that “this is how we can help you?” You should not only seek to entertain through your content, but also educate and provide solutions to your audience. This will eventually encourage them to visit your brand, site or page more often especially when they are looking for information pertaining to topics relevant to you and them.

 

These may seem like very simple reasons but influence how well your content is doing and should not be underestimated. Keep your audience engaged, informed and feeling valued, and this could very well have a positive effect on your brand. Your focus should not be on numbers, but on the quality of your content and how you make your audience feel. This will in turn lead to greater brand performance and audience engagement.

 

Written by : Nana Boatemaa

Don’t wish for it, Work for it

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The key to turning dreams into reality is Action – ~Jim Rohn~

Once upon a time, we have all dreamed and desired one thing or the other that we hoped to see it come into reality. Most often these dreams and desires are left unfulfilled because we fail to act on it or do some work to see that dream or desire come to life. Especially when we face challenges even when we decide to work towards our dreams, that desire to achieve usually dies down after a while if we are not able to ignite that passion or enthusiasm that we started with.

We often do not put in hard work to achieve our goals as we  tend to forget that the mere thought of dreaming or wishing does not work. We need to back it with dedication, consistency and a strong mindset that no matter the obstacles we face we will purse that dream or goal.

Almost all successful people the world has produced were great dreamers. What distinguished them is the fact that they worked hard and persevered in order to achieve their dreams.

Especially for us as women the stage of Motherhood comes with so many challenges and set backs that it takes self-motivation, dedication and a strong will to carry on with our personal goals and aspirations. Along journey to achieve our goals we are faced with a lot of barriers, oppositions and a multitude of negativeness.

The trick lies in the approach we decide to use in tackling these challenges. A strong determined spirit can lead us to conquer all the difficult paths we come across and motivate us to work hard towards our goals.We also have to dedicate time to our goals and be consistent with the actions we believe will help us to achieve them. You don’t necessarily have to do it all at once, take it one day at a time.

Remember that it is not the goals you set for yourself in life that matters but the hard work and effort you put in . We cannot achieve our dreams if we do not put in the necessary effort. We shouldn’t give up or loose hope when things are not going as we want. We must back our dreams with passion and conquer the world. The world needs what you have go to give to make it complete.